This is not a listicle where I tell you how to live your life or what should you wear.. No! These are just Casual things that “I” learned from my past 21 years.. since you all are now, my part of family I thought of sharing few of my good – bad experiences . I want you guys to know me first before judging anything further. So I will be very much happier if this blog help’s you in some or the other way. I always believe in “you are stronger then you seem”. I know, there’s a lot more shit I am gonna go through, lot more good things to come my way but this is how life is, like a wave.. isn’t it??
- Money will never solve your real problem
Money is tool; currency that buys you necessities and some desired “wants”. I ain’t saying money can’t buy happiness.. it does but for a short period of time. Money can buy a nice home, a great car, fabulous shoes, even a bit of security and some comforts, but it cannot fix a broken relationship, or cure loneliness…
- Have a pause and look around your surrounding
When was the last time you got up early to watch the sunrise, or ventured to the nearest hilltop to watch it set? Walking is good for you, but not all walk are created equal. Cruising the urban streets doesn’t provide the same mental boost as hiking a local trail or feeling of sandy beach between your toes. You don’t have to have a specific destination in mind, either – your goal isn’t to hike X miles, but to aimlessly immerse yourself in the natural world around you. The Japanese call this “forest bathing” and it can rejuvenate a weary mind. So why not.. have a pause and feel the nature.
As we all are heading towards the adult zone or some of them are in that, we want everything settle.. everything on a dining table. We want to decide everything, plan out our lives, experience everything, get to the top, get a nice job, have our own house, find true love, figure out life purpose , and do it all at the same time. woahhhh.. Slow down—don’t rush into things. Wait for a moment to come. Enjoy every bite of food, take time to look around you, let the other person finish their side of the conversation, give yourself time to think. Working towards your goals and making plans for the future is commendable and often very useful, but rushing full-speed ahead towards anything is a one-way ticket to burnout and a good way to miss your life as it passes you by.
- Your health is your most valuable asset.
Firstly everyone wants to be happy in life and for that you need Food.. Money.. love.. and for this you need a JOB! Haha the most important and stressfull thing. Doing a job or any kind or work, studies, research.. etc.. you need your body support, and for that having a healthy diet and taking care of oneself is necessary . Because if you will be healthy.. you will feel fresh.. most importantly energetic! We tend to take our good health for granted, because it’s just there. We don’t have to worry about it, so we don’t really pay attention to it… until we have to. Heart disease, bone density, stroke, many cancers—the list of many largely preventable diseases is long, so take care of your health, or you’ll regret it later on.
- Always being on front is not good!
Not everything is about you.. you are not the epicentre of the universe. I know its very difficult to digest and listen to someone else, but sometime we should see the world from other perspective. since we are always so focused on what’s happening in our own lives. What do I have to do today? What will this mean for me, for my career, for my life? What do I want? It’s normal to be intensely aware of everything that’s going on in your own life, but you need to pay as much attention to what’s happening around you, and how things affect other people in the world as you do to your own life. It helps to keep things in perspective.
“You must live in the present, launch yourself on every wave, find your eternity in each moment. Fools stand on their island of opportunities and look toward another island. There is no other land; there is no other life but this.” – Henry David Thoreau
I thought of starting a blog when i was in my second year of graduation.. but it didn’t happened. I don’t even remember why i didn’t started.. but few months back i had a thought if i wanted to why not now? so instead of thinking just do it right now!
- When it come’s to style and fashion always choose Style
Before judging anyone.. keep one thing in mind everyone have a different sense of style. we often easily say “oh god what is she even wearing”, its very important to know there is a difference between Style and fashion. Fashion is what we follow.. and Style is what we make. So choosing a style is always right, because it is unique to everyone, This is an individual’s opinion, their own choice in clothes and accessories. we say na “ Fashion is what you buy.. style is what you do with it”.
- Its okay to have fashion embarrassing moment.
Ya.. it did happened with me.. the worst moment but when i remember it.. i laugh at myself how stupid i was.. so basically it was my second year of BMM and we use to have lectures at 7 in morning.. i still remember that day i was way to sleepy to get up and get ready.. but with no other option i did and came for the lecture, the lecture started.. still feeling sleepy i looked down.. and guess what! I wore two different of sandal . and at that moment i didn’t knew what to do!! I kept those sandal in my bag and went back barefoot.. saying everyone a lie that my sandal broke..
Ps: the one was heel and the other was flat.
- Life is to short to wear boring cloth.. really??
So is anyone of us a secretly adopted kid of Ambani?? Jokes a part, but this quote is applied to the one who can afford to buy many clothes.. all the time. So that’s why i believe in fusion.. trying different experiments with same clothes.. maybe adding some different accessories or mix matching what you wear..
- Its okay to not know everything
No one has it all figured out. Nobody has all the answers. There’s no shame in saying “I don’t know.” Pretending to be perfect doesn’t make you perfect. It just makes you neurotic to keep up the pretense of manufactured perfection. We have this idea that there is some kind of stigma or shame in admitting our limitations or uncertainly, but we can’t possibly know everything. We all make mistakes and mess up occasionally. We learn as we go, that’s life. Besides—nobody likes a know-it-all. A little vulnerability makes you human and oh so much more relatable.
- Just being together is all that matters
So often in life we’re looking for the rush, for the next event or activities to fill us with excitement. But, I’ve learned that, when it comes to love, you can find yourself doing absolutely nothing and realize that you’re having the most amazing time. When you’re spending time with someone you love, you don’t need constant entertainment. You don’t need to distract yourself or find ways to make something fun because, when you’re near someone you love fiercely, things just become fun. There is no forcing it. There is no battle to make up things to do. Whatever you do, there you are, having a great time.
- You will get the love you think you deserve (aim high!).
You’ve heard this love-related cliche before too, I’m sure, but honest to god, it’s true. If you expect to be treated badly and if you treat yourself badly, you will find someone who will treat you just the way you think you deserve to be treated. But, on the flip-side, if you believe that you should be treated with the utmost respect and decency and if you believe you deserve to be loved in a way that is pretty damn close to magical, believe me, that’s the love you’ll receive. Whether or not you want to buy into the whole Law of Attraction concept, I can tell you that I’ve learned that the love you expect to get is the love you will get. So, whether you’re looking for love or you’re already in a relationship, remember to aim high when it comes to the love you think you deserve.
13- You don’t always get what you want
“Life is what happens while you’re busy making other plans.” – John Lennon
No matter how carefully you plan and how hard you work, sometimes things just don’t work out the way you want them to… and that’s ok. We have all of these expectations; predetermined visions of what our “ideal” life will look like, but all too often, that’s not the reality of the life we end up with. Sometimes our dreams fail and sometimes we just change our mind mid-course. Sometimes we have to flop to find the right course and sometimes we just have to try a few things before we find the right direction.
- Fashion and Size don’t care about each other, seriously:Too fat, too thin, too tall, too short. Stop sweating and restricting yourself because of your size maaaaaaan. You can wear that mini skirt even if you’re “fat”, you can wear ovsersized clothes even if you’re “too thin”. Stop being so typical now.. why should i hide my pimples my pores bro that’s natural.. i m a foodie person and i prefer more of food.. then how do i look…its all about how you carry yourself how you carry your outfit.
- Love is not a favor to be returned:
It’s okay if you love someone and they don’t love you back. But it’s not okay to not be respected back. I know it kind of sucks to be not loved as much or loved back by that certain someone but what sucks even more is not being respected by them? I am okay if my boyfriend doesn’t love me like I love him, but I won’t be if he doesn’t respect me. Love is not a favor.
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