It’s starts from small things…

When people say “Shurvat chote se karo, success zaroor milega” they are somewhere true. As I have said many a time, everyone wants to be successful, be settle, build a bright future, but before building a future we need to build our own self and building yourself is not like a Lego game which will be done within few hours or it’s not gonna happen over a night.

It will happen slowly and gradually, it will happen when we focus on small things first, like unwrapping the tangled mess of your hair, picking up the brush and getting rid of one knot at a time. It may sound crazy but I swear if you pay attention on these small things you will feel change in yourself. Like smiling at your reflection in mirror and getting dressed each morning, even if you are not stepping out. Or maybe even to get some fresh air and coffee. Or maybe changing your look, a look in which you feel good. It’s about the tiny things that you do each day that bring you closer to feeling warm again.

It’s about being a person who care, who makes the effort for becoming a person who loves without hesitation. Be the person who bares it all, the person who never shies away from the depth of their feeling or intensity of their hope. Be the person who believe in the softness of the world, on the goodness of other people believing their are good people too. Be a person who take chance who refuse to hide. Trust me when I say be a person who care! Because the world doesn’t need more carelessness anymore disregard because there is nothing stronger than someone who continue to stay soft in the world that hasn’t always been kind to them. 🙂

Just a thought…

It was a cold breezy night, I was traveling with my family.. As it was past midnight everyone was asleep. I was there sitting enjoying the view from window, my mind full of positive thoughts, I was happy somewhere in my corner of life. I realized something— that happiness was never about getting job, getting graduated or being in relationship.

Happiness was not about going ahead of everyone, showing that you are on top. But one day we are going to realize that happiness is all about the discovery, the hope turning into reality, seeing yourself growing, happiness was always about being kinder to yourself, it was about embracing the person you are becoming, realizing that love is not always about being in relationship. One day we will realize happiness was how you taught lesson to yourself, how we learned to live.. That your happiness was not in others hand.

There is no denying that people around you are going to make you happy are going to support you, but in the end it’s always about you and your own self. It’s never too late or in my case too early to be whoever you want to be. So next time when you are traveling have a thought on it 😉

It’s just a matter of Acceptance!

Really? Yes I know when you read the title many things may have popped up in your head things which are stopping you, things which are not letting you go and be free. Acceptance is a key, it unlocks the denial, fear, and negativity of a circumstance we may face by opening the door for us to face it head-on. In simple term, it’s about ‘getting real’.
It’s very difficult to go through life when your core belief about yourself is that you are incompetent and do not count. When you have no sense of your own value, you are like a leaf in a wind, dependent! Which you should not..!
As I know this year for me was full of surprises (this was Sarcastic) where I had to accept few things, where I had to accept I have to leave few people behind, where I have to accept the upcoming things which might turn a beautiful miracle… Which did.
Accept it few things are not meant to happen.. accept it every time it’s not your fault… Accept it You are Capable of things around you.
We need to develop the habit of looking at whatever happens through a positive mindset instead of a negative.
I discovered that I was happier and more peaceful when I accepted what had happened instead of constantly fighting to change things. It also helps you to move from feeling happy to actually being happy…
So now it’s your time to accept things and be happy🙂