Social Distancing > social life

If someone had told you just six months ago, that the world was going to change and you would probably be in lockdown in your home or the city that you live in would be ravaged by fear. How would you have reacted? Sounds like science fiction does it not? A virus that affected one human, and in a matter of months spread around the globe! what will come in your mind if this were told to you 6 month before?
You would have stressed about economy, you would have worried about how will you feed your family, other’s may have also worried about going out, partying, celebrating etc. But importantly did you noticed? We have overcome with all these problems.
With all those difficult time we had or even now people who are suffering have fought with all the difficulties.
Being a Mumbaikar a life in lockdown was not easy a place where people’s dream come true a city which never sleeps. But we all did pretty well.
We learned the importance of family during this lockdown. We realised how we cared about each other, we realised the importance of friends. But also at the same time, we have become the owner of our own time and our own space.
I know soon life will again overwhelm me with its pace and challenge, while I’m waiting to embrace life with the same zest.
I pray soon everything will be right in their place And everyone to have a happy and healthy life.

It’s starts from small things…

When people say “Shurvat chote se karo, success zaroor milega” they are somewhere true. As I have said many a time, everyone wants to be successful, be settle, build a bright future, but before building a future we need to build our own self and building yourself is not like a Lego game which will be done within few hours or it’s not gonna happen over a night.

It will happen slowly and gradually, it will happen when we focus on small things first, like unwrapping the tangled mess of your hair, picking up the brush and getting rid of one knot at a time. It may sound crazy but I swear if you pay attention on these small things you will feel change in yourself. Like smiling at your reflection in mirror and getting dressed each morning, even if you are not stepping out. Or maybe even to get some fresh air and coffee. Or maybe changing your look, a look in which you feel good. It’s about the tiny things that you do each day that bring you closer to feeling warm again.

It’s about being a person who care, who makes the effort for becoming a person who loves without hesitation. Be the person who bares it all, the person who never shies away from the depth of their feeling or intensity of their hope. Be the person who believe in the softness of the world, on the goodness of other people believing their are good people too. Be a person who take chance who refuse to hide. Trust me when I say be a person who care! Because the world doesn’t need more carelessness anymore disregard because there is nothing stronger than someone who continue to stay soft in the world that hasn’t always been kind to them. 🙂

Just a thought…

It was a cold breezy night, I was traveling with my family.. As it was past midnight everyone was asleep. I was there sitting enjoying the view from window, my mind full of positive thoughts, I was happy somewhere in my corner of life. I realized something— that happiness was never about getting job, getting graduated or being in relationship.

Happiness was not about going ahead of everyone, showing that you are on top. But one day we are going to realize that happiness is all about the discovery, the hope turning into reality, seeing yourself growing, happiness was always about being kinder to yourself, it was about embracing the person you are becoming, realizing that love is not always about being in relationship. One day we will realize happiness was how you taught lesson to yourself, how we learned to live.. That your happiness was not in others hand.

There is no denying that people around you are going to make you happy are going to support you, but in the end it’s always about you and your own self. It’s never too late or in my case too early to be whoever you want to be. So next time when you are traveling have a thought on it 😉

It’s just a matter of Acceptance!

Really? Yes I know when you read the title many things may have popped up in your head things which are stopping you, things which are not letting you go and be free. Acceptance is a key, it unlocks the denial, fear, and negativity of a circumstance we may face by opening the door for us to face it head-on. In simple term, it’s about ‘getting real’.
It’s very difficult to go through life when your core belief about yourself is that you are incompetent and do not count. When you have no sense of your own value, you are like a leaf in a wind, dependent! Which you should not..!
As I know this year for me was full of surprises (this was Sarcastic) where I had to accept few things, where I had to accept I have to leave few people behind, where I have to accept the upcoming things which might turn a beautiful miracle… Which did.
Accept it few things are not meant to happen.. accept it every time it’s not your fault… Accept it You are Capable of things around you.
We need to develop the habit of looking at whatever happens through a positive mindset instead of a negative.
I discovered that I was happier and more peaceful when I accepted what had happened instead of constantly fighting to change things. It also helps you to move from feeling happy to actually being happy…
So now it’s your time to accept things and be happy🙂

Work Hard Do Good One Life To Live.

Before even explaining the title I would like to tell you guys one story. One day karma and bhagya was having a fight where karma was saying he is more powerful then bhagya because if you do hard work then only it will pay you off whereas bhagya was saying No I’m more powerful because if it’s meant to be your’s it will, “mere bhagya me Hoga to muje milega”. After having a long fight they weren’t getting there answer! finally, Narad muni came and told them to visit Mahadev to get their answer he is the only person who has all the answers to our questions. Both karma and bhagya went to Kailash and met Mahadev they asked him for their answer… Mahadev then told them to spend a night in an old cave, the next morning they will get the answer. Both of them agreed and went inside.

As the cave was old it wasn’t clean, it was dust all around.. which karma didn’t like he was complaining about it. Whereas bhagya said, “this is what must be written in my life that’s why I’m here”. Karma got angry Ignoring bhagya’s statement he started cleaning the cave. After a few hours karma was starving but, there wasn’t anything to eat. Whereas bhagya said there must not be meal written in my life for today that’s why I m not getting. Karma again got angry and started searching for something to eat after a lot of struggle he finally found a bowl of peanuts. He happily started eating those peanuts and gave small stone’s to bhagya to eat, karma was teasing bhagya that this is what is written in his life. The next morning Shivji came and asked both if they got the answer? karma replied yes we got, I m more powerful because I struggled a lot because of which I got peanut to eat and bhagya got stones. Shivji asked bhagya to see the stone’s and by miracle, those stone turned into Pearls… With this shivji explained you both are one person If you work hard and do good things in your life your bhagya will definitely change.

If we relate this story with our life… Currently everyone of us are in a situation where we are struggling and having hard time but friends don’t loose your hope keep going.. your bhagya will definitely change… Never stop… your hard work will pay off very soon. And when that day will come you will be proud of yourself that you crossed all the barrier and reached to your goal.

That’s why work Hard Do Good One Life To Live.